The other day I was talking to my co workers and we started talking about how long can we go without sex. A few said 2 weeks. Another person said a month. Only a couple of us said we could last a year. The longest I have not have sex? 3 years!!!! It’s not like I didn’t options, it was a discipline thing but I kid you not, since then I could never past a year. One of the girls asked “How could you last so long without having sex?”. I laughed. “It was easy” I told her, “I masturbate”. Our manger jump out from behind the counter and said “Omg, if I didn’t masturbate I don’t know how I would live without sex”. From there, we all stood there talking about how we masturbate, when we masturbate, what we masturbate to, etc. All of us are grown, between the ages of 21-35. All genders. Same straight. Some queer but the one thing we all had in common is that we touch ourselves when no one is looking. It’s funny, when I was younger I wouldn’t share that information with anyone but the older you get, the more you realize you’re not alone in the world and other people have things in common with you no matter the #sex, race, age or sexuality preference. Masturbating keeps you from making mistakes, sleeping with the wrong person, reaching out to that past fling or ex you know you shouldn’t be talking to. I’m having a no fap summer so it’s going to get real hard this summer (pun intended) but I want to see if I can past a year without falling back to past flings or jerking off to cope with my horny thoughts.
Some guys won’t admit this but some us love eating pussy. When I was younger, I had a crew that we called "box squad' cause we all ate the box. The only thing about eating the box is you just can’t eat any ol girl. That’s something you can only give wifey or someone you know for a fact isn’t fucking anyone else (you don’t want to be sucking some other guys cum out of shorty).
When I was 17 I lost my virginity and the girl who I lost it too was basically a pro at that age (she lost her virginity way before I did). She left for the Virgin Islands and we were both in heat!! Both couldn’t wait til we were in each other arms and plowing the shit out of each other... but I knew I wanted more than just regular sex. I wanted oral! I wanted to see what that mouth could do but I knew in order to get some, you gotta give!
So I watched every porno I could find, read every sex book, talked to every girl I knew and basically studied the vulva. I wanted this girl to pour her juices all over my face. I couldn’t wait for her to sit on it. Finally the summer was over and she came back to NYC. I was rock hard just knowing she was back in the same state as me. We met up and it wasn’t even 10 mins before we jumped into my bed. Shoving each other tongues down our throats, I’m fingering her as she moans in my ear. Feeling how wet she was, I knew this was the moment to go down. I didn’t even tell her what I was going to do next.
I first kissed her lips, kissed her neck, kissed her breasts, her belly button and kept making my way down town. I started searching for her clit with my tongue and sucked on it like I was sucking out the meat of an oxtail. When her legs wrapped around my head, I knew I was on to something. She eventually pulled my head up and put me inside her. I was down there for over 30 mins. Eventually she went down on me (her blowjob only lasted 10 minutes) but that experience shaped the rest of my sex life forever. I learned a valuable lesson that day. There’s pleasure in pleasuring someone else.